Journey to Eternity Workshop : day 1

Journey To Eternity ( Intensive Workshop:part two: Day 1)
Date and time: 4th March 2012
Venue: Dubai women's association
Speakers : Sister Eman and Sister Awatif

First half by Sister Eman:
Greetings to all the sisters from heart to heart.

Advice ,command from Allah swt Sura Al Imraan: 102
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اتَّقُوا اللَّهَ حَقَّ تُقَاتِهِ وَلَا تَمُوتُنَّ إِلَّا وَأَنتُم مُّسْلِمُونَ

O you who believe! be careful of (your duty to) Allah with the care which is due to Him, and do not die unless you are Muslims.

If you are a believer then fear Allah as He should be feared.wallaa,,,means don't, do not die except in a state of islam.we need to continue being a believer till the time of death.
These days we need things to awake us up, especially in this time of afflictions,materialistic world,talking about duniya,dont you see around you,ppl fighting for money ,all these problems,the social lives,martial lives,increased divorce rate,ppl undutiful to parents, Why is all this happening?
In the earlier days were your grandparents having the money that we have today did they have fights did they have technology,NO!
Today our lives are so easy so we need things to soften our hearts, for egs adhaan time, what do the men do,or what do the sisters do? They continue watching tv, they are so careless,heedless ! The solution ,remedy for better life,happiness around life is around two things:

1)) Al Emaan billah : we need to know the creator.the heart of everything to know Allah swt.whom i m worshipping.

also something else is required ,what will reform our life,what will solve all OUR problem...

2))Al Emaan bil youm al Aakhiraah: belief in DOJ
So whom do I worship and what I will see after I depart this life!if you believe in this day.

There is no escape from this journey, we all will travel,men and jinn, and we have no choice to choose, when you wish to depart,we all have the tickets in our hands,it is just that we don't know when whose turn will come.I am waiting in the queque to eternity,imagine yourself standing in this q for this journey ,we are all heading towards the exit.these five days we need to imagine that it's only me traveling,alone, where will I go.journey to eternity,so I need to carry my provisions.don't delay,since this is a long journey you need preparation, this journey to eternity.For egs if you are driving to ajman from dubai,such short distance but still you carry so many baggage and provisions although you know you can stop in the route and buy so how should my preparation be for eternity, what about eternity..
There are two types of eternity one is filled with happiness and delight leading to jannah,while the other is filled with misery and punishment leading to hell fire.

We should always remind ourselves about this journey, even when u go to the airport.
Egs when you go to airport then you should ponder,look at the way ppl traveling,some in first class some in economy ,this is about duniya.but imagine the journey about aakhiraah.what is deceiving the ppl that they choose to forget about this journey,this duniya is making us forget we are getting deceived.


Surah Yunus Aya 24
10:24
A parable given by Allah ,whenever some important message is being conveyed.

إِنَّمَا مَثَلُ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا كَمَاءٍ أَنزَلْنَاهُ مِنَ السَّمَاءِ فَاخْتَلَطَ بِهِ نَبَاتُ الْأَرْضِ مِمَّا يَأْكُلُ النَّاسُ وَالْأَنْعَامُ حَتَّىٰ إِذَا أَخَذَتِ الْأَرْضُ زُخْرُفَهَا وَازَّيَّنَتْ وَظَنَّ أَهْلُهَا أَنَّهُمْ قَادِرُونَ عَلَيْهَا أَتَاهَا أَمْرُنَا لَيْلًا أَوْ نَهَارًا فَجَعَلْنَاهَا حَصِيدًا كَأَن لَّمْ تَغْنَ بِالْأَمْسِ كَذَٰلِكَ نُفَصِّلُ الْآيَاتِ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ

The likeness of this world's life is only as water which We send down from the cloud, then the herbage of the earth of which men and cattle eat grows luxuriantly thereby, until when the earth puts on its golden raiment and it becomes garnished, and its people think that they have power over it, Our command comes to it, by night or by day, so We render it as reaped seed; produce, as though it had not been in existence yesterday; thus do We make clear the communications for a people who reflect.

The resemblance of duniya is like rain,which descends on earth,whenever you see your children, your  car, your furnished homes then you start admiring,when ppl start thinking they can control their lives,but when Allah's commands comes everything perishes suddenly, for egs a baby is born then he becomes a toddler then grows up to become a boy ,then youth and then comes the old age so.everything goes to the max then everything perishes suddenly,so why are we stressed about life,ppl in clinics are depressed,some will say my husband left me, all wealth gone, all ppl have diff psychological problem,the life is nothing worth crying about.
Life is not worth crying about.
Aya 25
وَاللَّهُ يَدْعُو إِلَىٰ دَارِ السَّلَامِ وَيَهْدِي مَن يَشَاءُ إِلَىٰ صِرَاطٍ مُّسْتَقِيمٍ

And Allah invites to the abode of peace and guides whom He pleases into the right path.
After Allah says don't worry about duniya,don't fight with your family members, everything will be separated Allah it's you to the land of peace.only in the hereafter ,in eternity,Allag encourages us to be interested in hereafter.

Now to start the journey,remember you are all alone.and we will see Allah's names while we go thru this journey..
Thus we start of journey with a guest who everyone is afraid of ,,but the guest will impose himself upon everybody wout any invitation.

Aya 19 surahQaaf

وَجَاءَتْ سَكْرَةُ الْمَوْتِ بِالْحَقِّ ذَٰلِكَ مَا كُنتَ مِنْهُ تَحِيدُ

And the stupor of death will come in truth; that is what you were trying to escape.

Whenever we hear about death, then we keep saying that such a person died as he was old,as we are all avoiding to discuss it.

Surah jumaa 8aya

قُلْ إِنَّ الْمَوْتَ الَّذِي تَفِرُّونَ مِنْهُ فَإِنَّهُ مُلَاقِيكُمْ ثُمَّ تُرَدُّونَ إِلَىٰ عَالِمِ الْغَيْبِ وَالشَّهَادَةِ فَيُنَبِّئُكُم بِمَا كُنتُمْ تَعْمَلُونَ

Say: (As for) the death from which you flee, that will surely overtake you, then you shall be sent back to the Knower of the unseen and the seen, and He will inform you of that which you did.

Allah says the death you are fleeing from it will meet you,then Allah says then you will return to whom to the all knower of seen and unseen,
The death is the door to meet Allah, to enter into hereafter.

Allah says in Surah rahamman ,Allah says everything will perish.Allah's name al Hayy ever living never dies.everyone will perish ,
Sometimes we imagine when we see our families ,we think everything is forever but it is wrong.
Nothing will benefit you only how much you know Allah swt,this is the actual provision of the journey.
Prophet saws said that qiyamah for a person starts with persons death,the minor qiyamaah starts qiyaamaah sughraaa,Allah says in Surah,

Al Imran Aya 185: all soul will taste death
كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَائِقَةُ الْمَوْتِ وَإِنَّمَا تُوَفَّوْنَ أُجُورَكُمْ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ فَمَن زُحْزِحَ عَنِ النَّارِ وَأُدْخِلَ الْجَنَّةَ فَقَدْ فَازَ وَمَا الْحَيَاةُ الدُّنْيَا إِلَّا مَتَاعُ الْغُرُورِ
Taste of death is different for everybody,for some ppl it will be sweet for some it will be bitter!

Today we will all write down to reform ourselves:
What sins I am still doing and I need to wake up,everybody write what things I want to do,I don't want the knowledge without any change.Allah says that he won't change anybody untill they want to change themselves.write for next five days and bring a change in ur lives.
Who are u, what are u busy in life with prophet saws said if you want to see how my end in life will be then you must see what I do in the life,whether such a person is righteous,maut is a MUSIBAH ,it is a calamity.even prophet saws said to Aisha that he experienced the saqaraat,agony of death.mind will be absent talk will be according to what you conceal in heart.
The mind will be absent,heart will be alive, whatever you conceal in the heart will be apparent.for egs meaning of sakarat is from being in drunkard like state .half conscious.
So during the time of death mind changes,it is so scary,whatever you have in heart it will be exposed.some of the scholars were asked ka'ab ibnu maalik always said I wish I meet someone who goes thru death, then ppl said now you are experiencing the death so tell us,he said that ,"I feel as if the heavens are on the earth,squashing the earth and I feel as if my breath is coming from a hole of a needle."
while for a person who is not righteous we are informed that he feels as though a branch of thorns in his body hand piercing him till all veins are cut.
The rooms are filled with family children, but when you are dying you are all Alone,the journey is with Allah's names,by knowing Allah al mumin,the one who grants security.
Allah's name al muminnn so you will see,security ,who will relieve u of your fears the most scary position is death,no one can help u,the doctors can not help,doctor said when u see a person dying your life will be reformed.the mother cannot do anything to save her child,nobody can do anything, the only peace is from Allah,so we need to flee to Allah.we cannot flee to anyone but to al muminn,Allah says I am the one who grants security no company of life insurance.
At the time of sakarat al maut it will be different from ppl to ppl.at time of prophets death,Aisha and Fatima were there,he was wiping his face with water,and said I can feel the agony of death,in other room Fatima cried making duaa for the father,messengers are given choice by Allah but prophet saws said that i ask that I want to meet my highest companion, it is Allah.so Aisha knew that he is choosing Allah swt.
The end of Umar was when some Jew stabbed him with poisoned knife while he was in a prayer,so he fell unconscious,when he woke up the first thing he asked did the ppl finish their prayer,Then he said I  swear by Allah if I had the whole duniya which was to be given as ransom to meet Allah I would give the duniya away.

Harun Ar Rasheed ,a califa,who had huge kingdom, then at time of death he said gather it for me before I die,so they were gathered,his entire military and countless ppl of kingdom, then he cried and said all will perish but Allah will never perish , then he invoked ,' Ya Allah be merciful to the one whose kingdom and all will perish.SubhanAllah.

When someone is dying then remind the person of Allah's hope,the dying person should be told how Allah is ghafur Ar Raheem.
How some other people die ,like a person who indulges in duniya all his life, he would never pray,he would say that ppl pray only in janazah, at the time of his death they reminded him to say about sali Alaa ,but he said I have to put up a curtain in my window and he was counting his business in dunya till he died.
Another scholar said a drunkard was dying,when they said say la ilaaha ILLAHA ,he said  no I will not say,instead he  said you first drink then give me the drink, he was repeating this till he passed away,ppl are different at time of death,dying person will see things as no one can see.sometimes ppl are siting in functions and suddenly the person dies for egs the football player died in the middle of a match with thousands of audience in the stadium...
Allah swt give us the best to do in life,what is from the unseen that the dying person will see that no one else can see...
This is Rahmaah from Allah that we are informed what I will see at the time of death ,this is from Allah al Aleem..

Surah Waaqiah Aya 83:

So Allah says that when the soul would reaches the throat,the person will die.all of the ppl are looking at him,but who is more closer Allah ,al qaeeeb, is the closest by His knowledge ,by His hearing,By his seeing.

For egs for ladies at time of delivery,you request someone close like mum or sister  to accomapany u in labour,to be closer to you,reading ruqyah but we must seek it from Allah al Qareeb,more closer than the jugular vein,this will give you a relief.if in the journey you will be more relieved when you know Allah by his names.sometimes we do not utter as we are in stress,but Allah is more Qareeb and He knows what is in Your heart.only for those who know Allah.
Prophet saws said the thing that you have too much hope from in duniya then Allah will leave you.so look at the messengers they hope only from Allah.I know Allah is al Qareeb

Experience of dying person: a prefinal test

Now we will see how the dying person will experience
Ibn tayyimah says at the time of death shaytan will come.Allah says your clear enemy is shaytan will try to deceive you.if you are strong with ur Aqeedah the shaytan will have no power on u but it is nusf nusf ,fifty fifty,then he will shake you and make you slip.
We need to know Allah al Hafeedh.don't you want Allah to protect you from shaytan and his plots ?to protect from this devil ,only Allah can save ,use this names now in duniya don't wait for that time.what you think about Allah He will be like that,always make duaa:
Sura al Imraan Aya 8:
Rabbana...
رَبَّنَا لَا تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنتَ الْوَهَّابُ

Our Lord! make not our hearts to deviate after Thou hast guided us aright, and grant us from Thee mercy; surely Thou art the most liberal Giver.
Ya Allah don't make me fail in the pre test ,the shaytan will try to put u down,
For egs plucking eyebrow means being out from Allah's mercy but shaytan will come and say that look at urself ,u look bad, old-fashioned,ur  husband will marry another one..he tries to discourage you,but Allah wants you to go to paradise.Allah al wadoood allah is full of love.
Whenever Allah commands to do good deeds do it as Allah is guiding you,as He is ur Rab,he wants u to go to paradise.
No one loves like Allah loves His creation the most.when you see from ppl love this is from Allah.The shaytan will discourage more at times when u die.the shayateen have a planned mission, they meet everyday and want to mislead human beings to go as many as can into hellfire.so they do not want to go alone.
Shaytan tries to discourage you,he sets up the trap and only Allah can protect us.
Look at the dying believer person will remain strong , he will see things which no one can see, sometimes he sees ppl coming close some ppl far, he can hear noises, this is before death.at time when the soul needs to leave the body, from the time of four months in your mothers womb till you depart duniya soul is with you.no one knows where the souls whereabouts,Allah says do research about your soul,but you will not know anything about it. Ibn tayyimah said that death and life are created by Allah,so Allah has created souls like lives.for egs evidence insurah mulk
Alllah  assigned angels to remove the soul.on lay latul Qadar the angels will be informed about who will die in next year.everything is pre decreed,this list of death etc is with Malik al maut.Alllah gave this job to Malik al maut,so at the same time he can take from east or west,for him he is obeying Allah.the angels are obedient to Allah,everything around u  are obedient to Allah but look at the human beings .Allah honored human beings but they are disobeying Allah,they a debating while the other creations are all submitting to Allah .
If Allah wants someone to die in a spot in some house,so Allah will make situation that the person reaches that place at the time.death is pre decreed.it is from Allah according to his Hikmah.The dying person will know he is dying,the angel of death will come for a believer,a righteous momeen,believe in aakhiraah,busy in learning about Quran,my life busy in salaat, my prayer my sacrifice everything for Allah no shirk .this is the momeen as nobody is merciful than Allah.if you are attached in your life to Allah then you are under Allah's shade,how is it when you go for umrah you do tawaaf around Kaaba in your  ur heart you should be busy with love of Allah ,always doing dhikar Allah,
Ppl busy sharing receipe, in vain talks...

At time of death ,the dying person muhtadhir,sees angels,at the time of death the angel will come and say ukhrooji, come out ,angel of death will speak to the soul,come out for the forgiveness of Allah swt, the soul will come out smooth,the soul of believer will come out smoothly.
Allah talks to the soul.
Surah al fajar Aya 27
When the soul comes out then the angels of death will not keep the soul even for one blinknof the second all angels will take it.this is matters of unseen,the angels will shroud it with perfume,soul is very light ,believer will be put in coffin from a cloth of paradise ,perfume of paradise, when soul comes out the final exit is thru the eye.so always a dying person looks up,so we need to close their eyes.
While the soul is being separated from body ,the angels will give him glad tiding: Surah Fussilat Aya 30:

I need fhe ghafur raheem, the one who is most merciful.we should not be afraid say the angels,they give glad tiding then they show him the paradise,so prophet saws said the one who loves to see and meet Allah then Allah loves to see and meet Allah.so Aisha said but we are all afraid of death so prophet said I am talking about at the time of death.death is the gate to meet Allah.don't you love to meet Allah?
Allah is Hafeedh so Kareem when a believers heart is filled with Allahs love then you will love to meet Allah.but for a kaafir and disbeliever the sinner he does not want to meet Allah.the one who indulge in duniya ,,is afraid to go as he does not want the wrath of Allah.
Don't delay any Taubah,hasten to do good deeds,hasten towards the pleasure of Allah,the angels of death,they have a black faces with terrible odor,and fill the room.
They come  carrying a coffin from hellfire they will shroud the body with fire, they will sit to take the soul,then they will say o u wicked soul come to the wrath of Allah, come to hellfire.
So is it worth delaying or missing prayer?why you are neglecting the prayer,
This soul will refuse to come out of the body,then Allah describes in sura Anfaal Aya 50

If you can see how angel of death will take the soul of disbeliever, they will smack the faces of dying person,the color of body changes from white to black.Allah is al haadee Allah guides you,He sent u guidance over guidance,it surrounds us. But we are the ones who are blind,we should not be deceived than this.Allah' s Rahmaah is more ,Allah is not making dhulm we are rejecting the guidance,ya rabbi guide me so that I reach a happy end.
In Surah Fatiha we read ihdee nas siratl mustaqeem.

Allah sends messages thru ppl.do not delay don't say I will , this maybe too late.

Aya 93 Surah Anaam
وَمَنْ أَظْلَمُ مِمَّنِ افْتَرَىٰ عَلَى اللَّهِ كَذِبًا أَوْ قَالَ أُوحِيَ إِلَيَّ وَلَمْ يُوحَ إِلَيْهِ شَيْءٌ وَمَن قَالَ سَأُنزِلُ مِثْلَ مَا أَنزَلَ اللَّهُ وَلَوْ تَرَىٰ إِذِ الظَّالِمُونَ فِي غَمَرَاتِ الْمَوْتِ وَالْمَلَائِكَةُ بَاسِطُو أَيْدِيهِمْ أَخْرِجُوا أَنفُسَكُمُ الْيَوْمَ تُجْزَوْنَ عَذَابَ الْهُونِ بِمَا كُنتُمْ تَقُولُونَ عَلَى اللَّهِ غَيْرَ الْحَقِّ وَكُنتُمْ عَنْ آيَاتِهِ تَسْتَكْبِرُونَ

And who is more unjust than he who forges a lie against Allah, or says: It has been revealed to me; while nothing has been revealed to him, and he who says: I can reveal the like of what Allah has revealed? and if you had seen when the unjust shall be in the agonies of death and the angels shall spread forth their hands: Give up your souls; today shall you be recompensed with an ignominious chastisement because you spoke against Allah other than the truth and (because) you showed pride against His communications.

The soul will not come out ,so the angels of death will hit them,so at that time what will the person do...is in the following Surah..

Aya 99 Surah al Muminoon
حَتَّىٰ إِذَا جَاءَ أَحَدَهُمُ الْمَوْتُ قَالَ رَبِّ ارْجِعُونِ

Until when death overtakes one of them, he says: Send me back, my Lord, send me back;

The one who is delaying ,will say give me one second so that I can stop sinning,the angels will say kallaa, you have a barrier ,your journey starts to eternity.
So there are two situations, so pray that you get glad tiding form malaaikaah,always think good about Allah.we need to remember that Allah s Rahmaah encompasses everything,his love is more than anybody else.the journey to Allah to success is just with your heart,ya rabbi you help me,Allah will come to you in armlenghts even if you take a small step.do little bit Allah will increase it for you.don't put obstacles ,just take the guidance ,Allah will increase it.the one who turns away from guidance  then Allah will turn away from you.nobody will guarantee in your life .

Look at the body slowly it will become numb family will cry.but the soul will have another journey. What should the ppl do at that tome,close the eyes,allowed to cry allowed to kiss,and make dua asking for Allah to keep him firm.now body remains down and soul goes up.

The journey of soul starts:

What about the soul,different angels job assigned, two angels will take him up,for the believer with extra care,keepers of heaven.
At that position the angels will call u with the best names,very gently,like a special guest,till they open and reach to the seventh heaven.
Then Allah will say at the seventh heaven ,Allah says that his book of records in the highest place in jannah.
As soon as they put him in the grave then the soul will come down very very gently.

For the other soul,before reaching the hellfire he is feeling the punishment,with terrible smell from the shroud,The angels will shut all the gates, then Allah says that put his books in Sijeen,worst place lowest levels of earth.
Aaraaf aya40
وَكَذَٰلِكَ حَقَّتْ كَلِمَتُ رَبِّكَ عَلَى الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا أَنَّهُمْ أَصْحَابُ النَّارِ

And thus did the word of your Lord prove true against those who disbelieved that they are the inmates of the fire.
There are two souls,souls of believers and souls of sinners.
So be attached only to Allah as He will give you the good end,make duaa to Allah,don't be attached to something rather than Allah.this is the souls journey.


Journey after death: and the ghusul of the body
Speaker : Sister Awatif

We came to life to live in it as a transit.the loser is a person who follows his desires and forgets why Allah has created you.Allah has created maut and haya to test us who is the best in his deeds.
The aim of life : Allah says to prophet in the quran when he was alive,that you will also die, that death may at is must.this ayaa Umar forgot about it and abubakr reminded him about it when prophet pbuh died,when Umar heard he thought he heard it for the first time.every soul will taste the death the lucky ones are ready for this journey.
After hearing the lecture about how soul departs now we have to understand the Haq of every Muslim.prophet pbuh said that whoever does ghusul ,whatever they see on the dead person they do not announce it, they cover it, as a sitar,but if some person wants to advise others as a ibraa,wout mentioning names that is fine,but the person who hides this then his forty sins are forgiven, also in another riwaayaa if it is done with iklhaass then Allah rewards as if that person is born from mums womb.also when such a person does it for ajar Allah will give ajar in DOJ.

Ghusul items needed :

Sidar: lote tree mentioned in Quran
Camphor also very important.
The above is from sunnah most important
Soap and shampoo
Some gloves
Misk
Scissors

How do we make a sidar;
One gallon-4 liters ( use two camphor)
4 liters of water then add quarter of sidar,then bubbles in water with sidar

Then grind the camphor , two cubes enough for one gallon,don't use too much else there will be powder on body.
When prophet pbuh  daughter died ,Zainab, then he taught the sahibiyaaat how to shower, he said wash them 3 times 5 times 7 times Orr more ,depending on the size of the body or how body has been received.
They said odd numbers he said yes odd numbers and at the end he said add camphor.

Procedure:

Use a lot of sheets for the reason of sitar,we need to imagine how you would want to be treated ,as may at will not speak  for herself.
Eyes should be closed,body soft if just died, if they come from freezer then little difficult,the clothes need to be cut all to be under the sitar, the aura should be covered.cut from the sleeves till the nect and the other sleeves till neck..then Downwards...wear gloves,keep pressing stomach to ensure allmdirt is removed...
Then raise the body then three times, pressing the stomach with continuos water running to take out everything,istinjaa should be done by professional..
Always ensure sitar is covered,,,general rule

How in janaba you do ablutions procedures similar for may at wash hands saying bismillah,wipe mouth wipe nose with cloth, then hand and body complete the wudhu.
Then turn the may at to right side, wash the right side,make sure water is flowing under the sitaar, minimum three times,
If patients from hospital then they have holes ,clean it with band aid, as blood gushing out...then u use the camphor water, ( camphor is used to keep the insects away from the body and also to make the body firm)

Important things needed for kafann

Kameez,
Khimaar head cover,
Camphor powder and misk,
Rabtaaa, the ones to wrap kafan with.
Usually they use the mat so that it does not absorb water.then spread the RAbtaa in odd numbers.
Then spread the wrapper on it and then the second wrapper,then use the kameez depending upon the length of the person,the. Put the skirt that u will wrap on the may at,
Then sheets of cloth to be used for private part,then put cotton and put sidar and wrap privately,then cover the body.body should have been dried well with disposable towels and cotton,
To do sunnah braid the hair ,cover with head scarf,the women when she dies has to have her head covered then how about when she is alive?SubhanAllah .
Then start covering from right side first then left , then tie the head side like a knot but tie the knot left side as may at has to turn on right side when being placed in kabar.

When Fatima RA was sick then a sahabiyaa came, she said to Asma bint Umais, the sahabiyaa, that I am worried that when I die ,that they will carry my body and can see my body...so this sahabiyaa proposed that ppl in habashaa when they die they carry the women are taken like a dolii, a cage like thing so no one will know how is the body will be...fatima a wanted her body l not to  be seen...
Take advantage before the five comes to you

Your youth before you come to old age
Your health before illness
Your wealth before it is gone all
When you have leisure time to use it before no time
Your life before death comes
A stick mark in jannah is better than the whole world.
This is a general rule,remember,ladies wash ladies and men wash each other, only one exception time that man can see woman is between husband and wife,husband can wash his wife and wife can wash husband.
Where are we running al Hakaamaat takaathur.
We need  to work towards the death,prepare ourselves.
Ppl are in miserable stage before they die there is a smile, their faces shine.while some ppl unfortunately  die , then there face turns black,they are so heavy,tiny body but heavier than mountains.real stories of ppl experience,
Shaykh doing ghusul,four ladies rushed outside,so I did not ask as it's not my business,so this lady came asking I can not do alone.but he said men cannot,but as soon as she finished ,twelve men could not carry,but then did salaat, the minute they took the body towards the kabar it fell,slipped, he heard cracking of bones,then he saw the terribly scary face of the dead woman with eyes popping out!SubhanAllah.he returned to office very disturbed.when shaykh returned to office,After an hour the phone rings and she asks what did you see, the daughter had called,she pleaded the shaykh to tell her what he saw as the dead woman was her mother who was never praying to Allah, never covered anytime,she said, I am sure you saw something that I saw,one of the four ladies who ran out today were the daughters and I am one of them ...
Another story where the Shaykh was again called for gusul, the son of the mayat called for ghusul,small place was given not enough light,the lighting is not good,only shadow,the minute I opened the face of the may at it was bright,,he took the cloth it was still bright,nothing clean body,tried to put the finger of shahadah not going down.after kafan,before putting hunud in sajdaa places he could smell beautiful fragrance,then when they took  the imam also smelled when they carried him at dhuhir time, the minute I took my hand to put the sand, the sand so cold inside,,the beautiful smell in the kabar and it became more.then he went for salatal asr he asked the ppl about this person,they all said never in our life have we seen him miss the prayers,all his life in the masjid praying ,the children said that on Thursday he always fast,he did not wake up for suhoor,he said I am feeling very happy today ,they took him  to hospital,the male nurse was reading Quran, then he saw him raise his finger saying ashaduhu la ilahaa,.

Account yourself before you are accounted,you are the best judge ,whatever you have is between you and Allah swt!no ghusul for the martyrs in battlefield.